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I like this discussion. It is really thought-provoking...
I think it depends on personality features. There are people who are really active, efiicient, promoter. They are the ones who create opportunities for themselves and for others too. And there are other people who simply accept and use opportunities created by others. Sony, you already framed the essence of this issue when you writed: when we stop depending and expecting then life would be fantastic.. :)
yes Bea sis its really depend on personality some people don't have confidence in thier decisions.. they always need someone's yes or no.. so for those people we can do a favour.. that we should have confidence on them and ask them decide yourself what do you think is this better for you..and something like that..
thanks Bea sis for your reply
Absolutely agree. So far our forefather have left us a lot of fables, idioms that remind us not to be passive in any circumstance. Instead of lying at the foot of tree and open mouth waiting for fruit fall, we should find the way to climb up then take the fruit by ourselves (Of course, don't refuse if suddenly there is a fruit falling accurately into your mouth :D ..)
exactly vvquang very nice reply!!!
Hello All !
Yes your are right we neither shouldn't depend on others nor let other on us. Be winner not looser and always be to the best and come first.
Yes , i agree with you. But all the time it is possible to create a opportunity ?
very nice question deepa!!
well, in my view you it is not always possible.. for example, if you want to make tea, the sugar is finished at home, you go to shop and it is closed.. then it is impossible to make sugar by yourself.. in that case you either ask to neighbors or you can just quit the idea to have tea..