In the name of LOVE

Looking for a perfect match? Each of us wants to be with someone who can be with them forever. But I guess there is no such things as perfect. All I know is that.it does not start finding the right person but it begins with being the right person. Yeah, truly good relationship don't just happen by accident. It is not a good idea to rush in to things. So, find ways to make relationship healthy and make effort to nurture the relationship. 

Communication is very important. Talking to your partner in a respectful manner makes the relationship solid. Also, remember to be a good listener as well, if you don't, its pointless. There should no any reservations in your mind that may start nitpicking. Being open will clear your thoughts or hesitations. Honesty and Trust. Be honest all the time. Even "white lies" are not healthy for a good relationship. These qualities are potential to make a relationship healthy. A mutual respect is also needed. It's okay to disagree but you must respect each others opinion and differences. Having a partner that is dependable and reliable will give you a great sense of security within the relationship. In addition,friendship shall remain,it must not end. It should be an on going priority,for this it can help them weather the storm and crises they will surely face in the future. Showing affection,ideally on a daily basis. Hold hands, kiss when parting or greeting and say loving each other. If you are on LDR (Long Distance Relationship),well give time  to have a voice chat, send card or message, make romantic surprises, make them feel like there are no boundaries,as if he/she is just beside you. Appreciating there efforts is also important to both gender. Make them feel that you value the things they do. Possess a sense of humor,it also adds flavor to your partner. Make him/her laugh (flirt with each other) this would lessen conflicts and it is a great mood lightener.

Let us be certain  that excitement  stays in the relationship. Always have time to each other no matter what else is going on in your life. Don't be a fading couple instead be inseparable eternally. Then you can proudly say " I done all of these In the name of LOVE".

 

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Permalink Reply by frank alvarez on August 10, 2011 at 16:02
thanks for your welcome, and for your generosity, it is noticeable
Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 11, 2011 at 0:09
It's wonderful Thursday morning! Don't forget to greet your love ones with a smile. Utter the sweetest words that make him/her inspire (even to your kids and those you love the most). It is another day to prepare yourself in an in-depth journey into relationships. God Bless All. mwahh
Permalink Reply by lama amar on August 11, 2011 at 4:57
thanks for this topic.i totally agree with u.everything u mentioned is just the sound solid basis to any successful and happily ever after relationship.
Permalink Reply by bluerose on August 11, 2011 at 6:41

You subject is wonderful ,

I want to ask you how the video showed how?  I have show just the link...

Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 11, 2011 at 8:48
Hello Ms. Bluerose, thanks for reading my article. Regarding videos,first video  shows that give time to your partner. In order to support the needs of family one has to work ,preferably that is husbands's role but we must understand that we need to spend time with your family,build a small talk even its busy..the video shows wife doing everything she could do to make their relationship smooth yet husband ignoring all of these. Like he never appreciate what wife does,it shouldn't be like that. In the end guy realized her wife needs a token of love. Those I have mentioned should not fade even  married or still on going affair. The same thing with second video, marriage is sacred, is a covenant of human love. It is an act of commitment where one say's to one's earthly lover, "I love You", and I'm giving my life to you forever. What we have  promise in front of God must be fulfilled,partners must try their best to  make the relationship healthy. Remember all true love comes from God.
Permalink Reply by frank alvarez on August 11, 2011 at 14:51
Hi MileyJ. I've learned marriage is not the covenant between two but three people: God, , the husband and the wife. That really led my marriage to a higher level. Since then, we as a couple, have born lots of daily fruits. I make my best to tell my close buddies this reality that adds so much happiness to our lives. Living by example also, our kids grow up happily, God is the vine and we are his branches.
Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 11, 2011 at 15:10

Wow..yeah you were right. Thanks frank, I also read that on Bible. 

 

Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 11, 2011 at 9:50

I remember what I have read in a certain magazine, it says that there are three important words in a relationship,which is I Love You. On my view, I guess there are three important  sentences where in there are three important words ,too. First, I Love You. Second, Thanks to you. Third, I am sorry. Learning to use all of  these I guess it helps to understand what makes  " a true couple". Am I right?

 This song is for all of you. (hope I pronounced it clearly.)


ModPermalink Reply by Robbie on August 11, 2011 at 16:45

Hello MileyJ,

  Great discussion! You seemed a relationship expert. Love and relationship can also be meaningful with the blessings of God. Thanks for sharing your opinions on this matter. Everybody wants someone who can love him or her freely. And of course deserves happiness.... Cheers!

Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 12, 2011 at 1:12

Hi Robert! Not an expert at all. My husband and I try our very best to work our relationship stronger and healthy despite of being apart. I belong to Long Distance Relationship hehehe. We are really making a big effort. I'm afraid to loose him. I always assure that I'm doing all of these. And with the help of our Almighty God,we are still surviving. Experience makes me inspire to do this discussion. Thanks again, Robert.

 


ModPermalink Reply by Robbie on August 12, 2011 at 6:23

Hi MileyJ,

  You're welcome my friend. Having a long distance relationship must have been challenging for both of you. Not to mention the experience of being homesick and lonely. Having easy access on internet is a great to combat loneliness for being apart with our love ones. I wish happiness for both of you. God bless.... : )

Permalink Reply by MileyJ. on August 12, 2011 at 12:22
Thank you to all who viewed, sent comments and messages. I'm so grateful that you shared your ideas in my discussion. Thanks for lending me your ears. Hope to hear you again. God Bless!

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