My Ideal Husband

Every woman has her ideal husband. In my opinion, the ideal husband must have some traits, including working hard, being honest, and loving children.

First, I can’t tolerate that a man stays at home all day without work. I grew up in a poor family because my father was lazy to do anything and there were a lot of children in my family. I really hate a life without money. Can you imagine that a child must get worried about the next meal when he or she has just eaten a little food, or even doesn’t dress warmly enough to stay comfortable on a cold winter day? I believe that a diligent man is very important to his family.

Second, honesty is a base of good communication. In my view, I can just trust a person who is honest, and then I will communicate with him or her without mistrust. A husband is the person whom a woman will spend her life with, so I hope that my husband and I can talk about any topics freely and honestly.

Finally, I love kids and I hope my husband love kids, too. A man who loves his children will be responsible for and take good care of his family. He will work hard in order to make his family have a good life. He would like to spend more time with his family instead of reveling with friends all the time. And the most important is whatever he does, he thinks of his family.

A ideal husband has different characteristics for women. As for me, I hope he own the traits which I mentioned above.

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Permalink Reply by sweety on September 15, 2012 at 10:22

Dear R U married or single ?? 

if U R single so u r searching for the perfect person that can share all ur best moment with U, the person whom U can trast and tell him all what in ur heart and thought , the person whom will be happy if u r happy and be sad if u do so 

hope u can find the husband that u r dreaming about :)

Permalink Reply by Abu Aws on September 15, 2012 at 11:26

I faced the same situation when I was a child so I know what "privation" means but thanks for God I am rich  now and I achieved many things which were in my mind , anyway we live in Variable societies who focus on money so that we lost a lot ethics and we behave like animals .

although it is a difficult mission to find an ideal person nowadays but I hope you all success :)

Permalink Reply by Alex on September 15, 2012 at 21:29
I think you explained commonly for all humans basic princip of life. Your opinion is opinion of a woman who wish will be happy in your life. I hope you will meet your ideal husband or you met already ;-)
Good luck and be happy!!!

SpamBusterPermalink Reply by Oriani on September 15, 2012 at 23:56

Hi, dear!!!

My dream is not having an ideal husband but eating EVERYTHING without  gaining weight =) xD


SpamBusterPermalink Reply by Oriani on September 16, 2012 at 16:48

Hahaha I want to look thin but I LOVE food  =)

Permalink Reply by winnie on September 16, 2012 at 5:45

I am single and have a nice and stable job now. In fact, I don't have to get worried about money if I stay single. However, in my opinion, bringing up a child needs a lot of money and a child needs a good model of father . That's why I hope my future husband can be diligent in his work.

Permalink Reply by Mariam on September 16, 2012 at 14:39

Very interesting topic Winnie,
Yes my ideal husband should have 3 important criteria;
First, as u said, honesty is very important to build a healthy relationship, to trust him, to feel safe with him..
Second, Strength :) yes strength in everything, in mind, in opinion, in personality ,,, everything, for me I should feel that before giving my soul.
Third, Responsibility, he should carry the home and family responsibility, yes it is a company between each of us, but he should have the upper-hand. to be initiative to make the family happy...
actually I need him to be my best friend, kind, understand me, and decent :))
Is this greediness??


Permalink Reply by winnie on October 2, 2012 at 14:50

Not at all. Everyone has her standard or expectation for her right person.

Permalink Reply by Deepa on September 17, 2012 at 12:23

Good. I like it. Yes my husband also such a ideal person. It is god's gift having such a ideal person as a husband in my life. He is such a honest  and dedicated person. Take care of family members and their wishes. Hard work , communicate with others easily ,and others like his lovable nature.He look after our children as a mother.He respect my wishes and try to fulfil all.I see him as a husband , as a friend , as a counsellor . as a mother, as a lover and everything. Today i stand on my own , earn more all are because of my lovable husband.


ModPermalink Reply by Nadira on October 1, 2012 at 14:39

Interesting and a good post :)

Permalink Reply by winnie on October 2, 2012 at 14:51

ya

Permalink Reply by winnie on October 3, 2012 at 13:14

Depend on how you think of an ideal man or woman.

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