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I am not trying to judge yet i feel had you got to know her better as a person and what you share in common, before having a good time , it would have made it easier on both of you .
This is life one changes through sad experiences.
Time will heal for her hopefully and to you in the long run .
having a girlfriend or boyfriend doesn't mean she or he is going to be a spouse. but it is stage in which they are learnig each other characters. if he or she can not take one's characters he or she can break up their relationship. but in my mind, building a happy relationship between a man and a women is not merely based on the lot of things in common they have, but must be based on the love they have. love is willingness to take and give, take the weakness and strength of your partner, give the best to your partner. and time will teach you about that. but if you urge to break the relationship just say frankly to your girlfriend that you don't want her to be your future wife and just want her to be your friend. because she doesn't have a lot things in common with you, say also that your relationship with her doesn't mean she's going to be your wife. Thank you.
I can understand your situation but let be honest with you , both of you waste his/her time in your unequal relationship , So simply If you want to save the rest of your friendship , be a dare to say take care and good bye .
all best wishes.
it's hard for the beginning but at last you can pass it now. it's a good decision, friend.
so let the past become one of your treasures to fill your daylife.
Hi Pham ,I don't no where is the problem now , I don't get it..... you said as I quote your comment below......
''I have said goodbye to her for three months ago. Actually, I made her cry and disappointed. She called me or sent messages to me every day for two weeks. We had some hard conversations. I didn't want she to be unhappy and I tell her all my mind. I haven't got any her news from since to now.''
It seems that she get the message, she didn't call you or sent a message to you since about two monthes and half... so its over, but I think that you need our support ...you need us to tell you that you are not guilty, and honestly you aren't ...because if you continue in this relation you will hurt here more and more as long as you proceed in it....the earlier the easier
But I hope that you make the right choice..for you not for here, because dear Pham ,love is very hard to fined...,and not every relation you can get in you will found who loves you really....... it seems that she really loved you, and you can't loved her....,because the real love let you see your lover as a perfect person you can see all her defects and just say ''so what no one is perfect.....I like all your mistakes ..all your defects...I love you whatever you are''
Hope you found the real love once more, good luck.