Maybe you have felt or even said,  

"No one visits my page or leaves comments for me"

Is this you?

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Don't be sad, be active on MyEC.         If you become very active and treat your friends the way you want to be treated, you will be popular and also begin to improve as a person and hopefully as an English student. 

We sometimes get a message from a friend on MyEC complaining that their friends don't comment or say hello. PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE US ABOUT HOW NO ONE LOVES YOU!   You are the one who controls how other people feel about you.

SHOW YOUR FRIENDS SOME LOVE ...  Actually visit their pages and leave them comments instead of wondering why they don't seek you out.  Isn't that what you want them to do for you, anyway?   I may be a poor example for visiting people's pages because I don't get to visit much at all. But, I have been here long enough to know who becomes popular and why.

Remember the famous adage.  "Treat others the way you want to be treated" or in older English,     "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

Yes people, this really works.  He who smiles at others sees smiles in return.  He who frowns will not see many smiles.

THE SECRET OF WINNING FRIENDS ON MyEC (actually more than one secret).

1. Be nice... Only speak kindly to others.

2. Be friendly... Try to leave nice comments when you can.

3. Be active... Visit here every day, write something original for a blog and TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.

4. Try to create a winning page.  We have instructions on how to be creative and make a winning page. 

Wouldn't you really like to be a STAR member someday?  If you would, then read my suggestions.  All of the things I suggested will help you enjoy the club more and maybe even have a winning page.   So, don't blame others, fix things yourself.

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Comment by Yupa on July 12, 2014 at 5:34

Hi, teacher Bob, that is very nice and useful to all learners here who come and join EC. Thank you! 

Comment by Arm@n( Armed Man In peace) on July 9, 2014 at 1:22

Hi . Mr, Bob your blog rely is so useful . hope can be good member and member star on EC. i will waiting for your next blogs..

Comment by Mr. Bob on July 9, 2014 at 1:04
It is true. We must give in order to get. Thank you everyone for liking this blog.
Comment by Mr. Bob on May 30, 2014 at 3:05
I hope your schedule improved Fahime. It is important to be as active as we can.
Comment by Fahime on October 11, 2013 at 21:47

Enjoy your Japan stay Mr Bob :-)

Comment by Mr. Bob on October 11, 2013 at 21:24
I wish I could visit here every day. I'm still getting settled in Japan and not a lot of free time until later.
Comment by Fahime on October 11, 2013 at 10:22

You are absolutely right dear Mr Bob. I try to visit here everyday but my bust schedule doesn't let me to be an active member as much as I want :-( But your nice blog encouraged me to try more and more...

Thanks so for your great blog. big likeeeeeeeeee.

Comment by samakida on May 14, 2013 at 3:55

It was a really nice moment come on my face and a little smile on me , 

how many people they don't know how to live life like this , poor for them Thought 

Comment by Annisa on May 14, 2013 at 2:32

Hi Mr. Bob, nice to see your post,

thanks for your dedicate, its good advice fot me who new in englishclub.com

Comment by Mr. Bob on May 10, 2013 at 13:38
Bala, I'm not sure but I was on my discussion about the mobile app and posting from my mobile in reply to what Josef had said. I tried to review the post for typos and it never appeared. Somehow it went to you. So, I guess you did get it by mistake. Thank you for your comment and nice to meet you.

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